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Buying used

What's actually wrong with used kids clothes?

Adults wear clothes until they fall apart. Kids just outgrow them. So what do you call a dress that's been worn twice?

What's actually wrong with used kids clothes?

Kids outgrow clothes long before they wear them out

By the time our kids are 7 they've moved through about 12 sizes.¹

A study I recently read showed how adult clothing usually ends when it has holes, tears, or a worn-out look. Children's clothing stops being used as soon as it's outgrown. Our kids usually only wear something for one season.²

Which is why "used" is a strange word for it.

To me "used" describes something that's been thoroughly consumed

Some of it genuinely is. Play clothes, leggings with worn knees, a shirt that lived through a whole summer. That's real and it's easy to see.

But most of what a kid grows out of has barely been consumed at all. The dress worn to two birthday parties. The sweater from a grandmother that fit for one winter. The thing with the tag still on it, because it never got cold enough. These are the items we swap here at KidSwaps.

Every item is inspected by hand against The Closet Standard before it goes in, so what you're shopping is clothing that was outgrown rather than worn out, and it goes to a kid who's the size that garment fits right now.

There's a closet full of them. See what's in it right now.

A good rule of thumb

Would you pass it to a friend? That's the whole test, and it's the same one I use when a bag arrives.

Sources

Carter's. (n.d.). Kids clothing size chart. Sizes counted from Newborn through 7, by height and weight; retrieved October 2026.

Laitala, K., Boks, C., & Klepp, I. G. (2015). Making clothing last: A design approach for reducing the environmental impacts. International Journal of Design, 9(2), 93-107. Based on 620 garments from 16 Norwegian households; the authors note the sample is not nationally representative.

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